Rubber Band Theory John Gray

A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle he says.

Rubber band theory john gray.

I read a few of john gray s mars and venus books a few years ago. When they pull away they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. Just days ago your favorite martian was holding you in his arms telling you how special you are and how much he loves you and now three days have gone by and he hasn t even called. Men are like rubber bands.

The elastic band theory seems to imply that we should all be mean to each other to keep each other. Understanding the rubber band theory is a game changer for women that will enable you to understand how men work so you don t freak out or wreck a great relationship. So i call it the rubber band theory. One thing that stuck with me because i had noticed it before in my own experiences was his theory that men are like rubber bands.

The rubber band man is he taking a time out or is this a sign about your future. It can cause a man to pull away even more perhaps stretching until the rubber band breaks. My version is not to get confused with that of the author john gray who in his book men are from mars women are from venus states. The rubber band theory comes from men are from mars and women are from venus book by john gray.

Healthy men and women want the same things from a relationship not this rubber band mumbo jumbo. By john gray ph d. This is not a happy scene. When they leave they always come back just like nothing ever happened and no time has gone by.

This cannot be wise advice. Studies will show that the sexes are not much different independent from childhood traumas etc. This cycle involves getting close pulling away and then getting close again dr. By john gray author of men are from mars women are from venus.

These relationships seem perverse. If they love you they are gonna snap back pretty quick and it isn t a cycle it is manipulation to keep us chasing them ego. John gray is a hack. The rubber band theory duration.

John gray part 3 different stages of dating duration. He may feel pressured by concerns that his partner doesn t trust him or even that he is incapable of making her happy. Author of why mars and venus collide. Providing of course that the woman leaves them alone.